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Katie: Hiya and welcome to the “Wellness Mama Podcast”. I’m Katie from wellnessmama.com, and wellnesse.com. That’s wellnesse with an E on the tip. And this episode is all about “The best way to Sculpt Your Life, to be What You Envision.” I speak quite a bit in regards to the bodily facet of well being on right here, however I’ve gotten an growing variety of questions and emails associated to the psychological well being facet, the emotional facet, overwhelm, and every part that comes together with that. And so I wished to have Paul on, as a result of he’s a private buddy with an unimaginable life story. However, on-line, he’s often known as the non-public discovery architect, and he’s a visionary and creator behind the Sculpting Your Life platform, which talks quite a bit in regards to the powers of rituals and habits and mindsets, and find out how to use these to shift and make tangible modifications in your life.

He has a course of often known as “Tuning In”, which we speak about on right here for retraining your mind basically, which over 3 million folks worldwide have performed. And we undergo numerous the issues he talks about on this episode. Much more of his info is accessible on-line, and that’s linked within the present notes at wellnessmama.fm. However, on this, we go into the thoughts traps we are able to all fall into, the direct manner that our ideas and beliefs have an effect on our life, find out how to break our limiting beliefs, profound questions you possibly can ask your self that may assist shift your mindset in your conduct over time, the explanation issues like I can’t consider are so highly effective, his 7 steps for creating the shifts internally, numerous about morning ritual and habits, and find out how to domesticate these over time, and the way he makes use of multivariate resonance expertise to assist enhance the mind, and a lot extra.

Paul is a captivating man. He’s completely full of affection and really, very beneficiant in sharing with you guys. I believe, you’ll study quite a bit from this. And I’m all the time curious to listen to your suggestions so, please, depart a remark and let me know what you assume. However I believe you’ll get pleasure from this very entertaining and interesting episode with Paul Hoffman. Paul, welcome.

Paul: Hiya, how are you?

Katie: I’m so excited to talk with you. It’s all the time enjoyable.

Paul: Good to see you. I do know. I do know.

Katie: And we get to file this one.

Paul: Completely. It’s been so lengthy for the reason that final time. I believe the final time we met, we had been at a sushi restaurant right here in Marina del Rey. And now I get to spend a while with you. You might be simply an superior human being, Katie. I imply, I like what you do. I like the way you present up on the planet. And I’m honored to be on this journey with you in the present day.

Katie: Nicely, I really feel the identical manner about you. And you’ve got such an unimaginable…so many unimaginable tales of your life. And for anybody who isn’t accustomed to you but, I really feel like most likely everyone has heard considered one of your extra well-known jingles, which is the “Have you ever pushed a Ford these days?” If I’m remembering accurately?

Paul: That’s proper. Yeah.

Katie: Most individuals listening have heard that one. And I consider you additionally had been Pink Floyd’s tour supervisor at one level.

Paul: I used to be, after I was very younger. I used to be 24 years outdated after I was their tour supervisor. I labored for them for 2 years.

Katie: Wow. So, yeah, I really feel such as you’ve lived many lives in a single lifetime already, and lots of extra to return, most likely.

Paul: I hope to. You understand, my mother died at 104, Katie. All proper? My grandmother died at 109. Okay, that’s the Italian facet of my household. So, I inform all my mates, “Right here’s the excellent news. The excellent news, I’m gonna be round a very long time.” Then I say to all my adversaries, “Right here’s the excellent news. I’m gonna be round a very long time.”

Katie: Good genes, for certain on that one.

Paul: Yeah, there you go.

Katie: We’re all the time so inspiring to speak to you. And that was one of many causes I used to be so excited to have you ever on right here and allow you to encourage everyone listening. Like I discussed, you’ve been by many, many… Such as you’ve already discovered and shared and constructed a lot in your life. However I believe the work you’re doing now’s particularly inspiring to me personally, and what I’m excited to essentially delve into in the present day. So, for anyone who isn’t already accustomed to it, you have got a platform that delves into sculpting your life. And I’d love if we may begin broad, and you can simply introduce us to that idea.

Paul: Completely. So, sculpting your life… So, the metaphor to sculpting your life… To begin with, everybody, you realize, anybody that’s walked on this Earth is a murals. We’re all a masterpiece. Typically we simply don’t comprehend it. Typically we simply don’t see it. A number of occasions, we get in our personal manner so we are able to’t specific it. However the fact of the matter is we’re distinctive. There’s no person on this planet, Katie, that’s such as you. There’s no person on this planet that’s like me, similar to there’s no two rose petals, no two raindrops, no two snowflakes are the identical. So, sculpting your life got here out of a want I needed to actually empower folks to step into who they really are. And so, the metaphor for sculpting your life is when Michelangelo, the nice artist, seemed on the block of granite many, many, a few years in the past, which was cracked, flawed, discolored, similar to human beings, no person wished it, however he mentioned, “I’ll take it,” as a result of he noticed David. And what he did was he took every part in the best way out of the best way, and there’s David.

So, if anyone that’s listening has ever seen the statue of David in-person, I’ve, it’s a powerful piece of artwork. And it’s what each considered one of us as human beings are. So, I acquired into this complete factor, okay, what can I do and the way can I actually empower, and as I say, encourage folks to step into who they really are so that they sculpt the masterpiece often known as you? And that’s the general reaching idea of sculpting your life. And I do it by the ability of rituals, the ability of habits, and the ability of what I name mindsets of success. As a result of every part in your life occurs from some sort of a thought, perception, concept that you simply’ve had. So, no matter mindset you’re in goes to create no matter exhibits up in your life. And the best way to essentially create, as I say, mindsets of success is to get up day-after-day and focus in on what are you going to do in the present day to indicate up within the energy of who you’re, and create an motion plan in order that by the tip of your day, you have got felt that you’ve really proven up and impressed and empowered folks to do the identical factor.

And so, the thought of the rituals, and I’ve a really particular ritual I do day-after-day, and the entire concept of habits. You understand, there’s all the time two types of habits. You understand, there’s habits which might be good for us. As an illustration, you realize, clearly, this podcast that we’re doing now’s a extremely good behavior. It’s one thing, we’re sharing info, we’re connecting with one another, we’re hopefully gonna be capable of rework folks’s lives. After which there’s these habits that we do unconsciously, which aren’t actually good for us, however we don’t actually know as a result of we’re not conscious of what we’re doing generally.

So, the entire concept of with the ability to have a strong ritual, highly effective habits, and a mindset which actually will get you to focus in in your strengths and who you’re, I believe is crucial factor in sculpting the masterpiece often known as you. And so, you realize, everyone knows that there’s limiting beliefs all of us have, and everyone knows the converse that all of us have within the private improvement world, you realize, which I suppose I’m in, though I do name myself a “private discovery architect.” And after I say that, folks go, “What the hell is that?” Nicely, the reality of the matter is, I’m the architect of my life. And to ensure that me to develop no matter I wanna develop in my life, I’ve to find what it’s that I wanna develop. So I simply put the entire thing collectively, and that’s how I acquired to what I do. However once more, you realize, in case you can actually simply give your self the chance to decide on… I all the time inform folks select in your favor. So, each time you make a alternative in your life, make sure that it’s in your favor. Now, that’s not an egotistical factor. That’s not one thing that’s, you realize, self-serving, if you’ll. It’s actually about standing in your energy. As a result of except you possibly can stand in your energy, you possibly can’t stand in anyone else’s world and provides them who the fullness of who you’re. That was the lengthy and in need of it, however that’s sort of what it’s.

Katie: That was an ideal jumping-in level. And I like that you simply talked about ideas, beliefs, feelings, turning into, like, sort of actually shaping your life. I believe this can be a idea I didn’t actually perceive for a very long time. And I’ve talked about this earlier than on the podcast, however I did all of the work in bodily well being and health to attempt to heal and to get my physique to a spot of well being. And it wasn’t till I addressed my ideas and beliefs and feelings that that each one modified. And my bodily well being drastically modified, and that was nearly only a facet impact. However till that time, I didn’t actually perceive, I hadn’t skilled simply how profoundly that affect is. And I believe this generally is a little little bit of a tough idea for lots of people to grasp. So, can we go a bit of bit deeper on what you imply by your ideas and beliefs and feelings actually having that actually tremendous profound affect in your life, and perhaps some methods wherein you can begin to study and shift these?

Paul: Completely. So, every part… So, I all the time inform those who life’s an both/or precept, Katie, okay? And it’s actually easy. It’s not rocket science. Both you’re gonna do it otherwise you’re not. Okay. So, say you have got an concept that you simply wanna create one thing in your life, whether or not it’s a enterprise, whether or not it’s a love relationship, whether or not it’s a private relationship with your self, no matter it may be, there’s all the time three types to the thought. There’s the A, B, and C is what I name it. A is the thought, C is the result, proper? B, the center half, is crucial a part of something, as a result of what occurs in B will decide what you’re gonna do in your life. As a result of most individuals, once they provide you with an amazing concept, oh, say, for example, I’m gonna begin a podcast, okay? Let’s simply say any person says that, okay?

The result is I wanna be capable of interview folks and rework lives, and so forth and so forth. However most individuals, once they try this, in the event that they don’t actually know find out how to do it, they’ll say to themselves, “Nicely, I don’t know the way to do this.” After which they may by no means do it. So, that’s a perception that they’ve. I name it a thoughts lure. So, a thoughts lure is a limiting perception, okay? And I’ve recognized 10 thoughts traps that everyone has, shortage, distractions and diversions, worry of failure, procrastination and perfectionism, I’m not sufficient, I’m unlovable, lack of duty and accountability, resistance to alter, lack of dedication, and low vanity and confidence. And all of us have them both all of sudden or in several types. And so, the entire thing about with the ability to create this concept and say to your self, “Nicely, I don’t know the way to do this,” properly, why don’t you flip that, after which why don’t you ask your self this query? Any time you provide you with one thing new, that’s gonna problem you, that’s gonna actually get you to take a look at your life and step into a brand new paradigm, ask your self the next query. What do I have to do to make it occur?

And I’ll offer you an amazing instance. So, Katie, I’ve identified you a very long time. I love your work. I bear in mind the place we met. We met a Jim Kwik’s mastermind a few years in the past, proper? And I simply noticed Seth, your superb husband, at Visitors & Conversions, and we had been speaking, and, you realize, I mentioned, “So, Seth, how do I get on Katie’s podcast?” So, what do I have to do to make it occur? He mentioned, “We’ll simply make it occur.” In order that’s an amazing instance of me with the ability to go, “Okay, you realize what? I’m gonna ask for what I would like, and both of two issues is gonna occur. Both I’m gonna get a sure or get a no,” okay? So, when folks take into consideration find out how to create what they wanna create of their life, in the event that they’re not gonna prepared to exit on the limb and problem themselves, then they’re gonna keep in the established order, what I name their storms of mediocrity, okay?

So, the thought of every part in your life… I name it… So, we’ve all heard the expression, your internal actuality creates your outer circumstance. You understand, that’s a traditional PD saying that’s been round for a lot of, a few years. So, I’ve added a bit of little bit of a twist to it. So I say that your invironment, that’s your I-N, your invironment, creates your surroundings. You’re E-N, proper? And since what you place into your thoughts, what you learn, what you watch, who you hang around with, what you hearken to, all that stuff has a profound impact in your unconscious thoughts, in order that what occurs is, in case you’re placing stuff in your thoughts that isn’t empowering, and it’s disempowering, what occurs is you’re gonna have disempowering ideas, and also you’re gonna begin to not likely consider you can have what you need, and what I name your ideally suited life.

And so, every part that occurs in your life… To begin with, this can be a big idea. It took me a few years to get. I create every part that occurs in my life, by some type of thought, some perception I’ve, some sample that I permit to manage my thoughts, or some set off that triggers me to both surrender on myself or push ahead. And so, if you get actually, like, right down to the nitty-gritty of it, in case you’re not prepared to, or in case you’re not prepared to take a look at what’s getting you in the best way, or what’s getting in the best way of you having, as they are saying, your ideally suited life, then you definately’re not gonna change your life. And crucial factor that’s gonna provide help to change your life is altering your ideas, beliefs, and concepts about what it’s…what’s potential for you in life.

So, if you provide you with an concept, or a thought, or a perception, that “I can’t,” properly, then guess what’s gonna occur? I can’t. In the event you assume you’re poor, then guess what? You’re poor. In the event you assume considerable, then guess what? You’re gonna go into an considerable consciousness, and also you’re gonna discover abundance in your life. As a result of clearly, we stay in an considerable universe. There is no such thing as a lack and limitation right here. The one lack and limitation that individuals consider are those they make up. As a result of we’re limitless. And so, that’s sort of my complete perception about that. So, I train this, as I say, this idea about thoughts traps. You understand, in case you actually take the time to tune in, you possibly can actually establish what’s holding you again in your life. However you gotta be prepared to do it. And most of the people don’t wanna hear the result that their thoughts is gonna inform them, as a result of the result just isn’t gonna be in sync with no matter thought, perception, no matter, that they’ve. However the fact of the matter is, in case you wanna change your life, I inform this to folks all time, you wanna change your life, guess what? It’s actually easy. Do one thing totally different. That’s it.

Katie: Yeah, it’s a tough fact to listen to. And I resonate if you speak about this as a result of I’ve mentioned for a very long time, I believe we’re the sum of the questions we ask ourselves. And it’s so a lot better to offer our unconscious questions like “how can this occur?” and, like, open-ended creativity-based questions. However if you say, like, that we create every part that occurs in our lives, I do know we’re gonna have folks push again on that. And I believe I’d have too at one level in my life. I’d have mentioned, “Nicely, no, I didn’t create my Hashimoto’s. This occurred to me.” Or, “I didn’t create the sexual assault. That occurred to me.” However if you really actually begin unpacking it, such as you mentioned, you don’t essentially love a few of these solutions that come up, nevertheless it’s so highly effective. So, I’d like to go a bit of deeper on how will we begin unpacking these limiting beliefs? How will we begin making that internal shift towards issues like abundance, or in direction of issues like well being, or peace, or wherever we wish to go? What are a few of these… Possibly, like, give us some specifics on find out how to begin that course of.

Paul: Nicely, okay, so, the very first thing about it… So, I’ve this course of. It’s known as the tuning-in course of. Okay? And, you realize, I’ve a mind expertise, Katie, that I believe… I consider I’ve given you guys a few free tracks to whoever desires to join it. However the fact of the matter, so, it’s all about, you realize, lots of people speak about meditation. We are able to get into that a short time later, however I name it tuning in. And so, crucial factor that it’s essential to do is it’s essential to do… There’s a three-step general course of to tuning in. And it’s about inquiry. These are the questions you’re speaking about. Inquiry. Okay? Ask your self laborious questions. When one thing doesn’t go your manner, ask your self, “Why didn’t it go my manner and what was my half in it?” Okay? What was I considering? What was I doing? What was I attracting into my life after I was attempting to stroll down this sure path, to have a sure consequence in my life? So, you wish to have an inquiry.

You wanna then be capable of uncover the place you’re getting in your personal manner. As a result of the largest impediment to success, I don’t care what anyone tells you… I acquired a whole lot of books throughout me, about success, and mindset, and all that stuff. And I’ve nutted all of it down to at least one quite simple precept. That’s, when you discover ways to get out of your personal manner, then a plethora of alternative opens up for you. As a result of the largest impediment to success is you. I don’t care what you inform me. You can play the sufferer, you can blame any person else. However once more, again to this complete factor the place you create your personal life, and also you create every part that occurs in your life by the consciousness that you simply’re in, in each second of your day, then, which stands to cause, you have got the power to manage your consciousness by the way you assume, what you consider, and the way you present up round what’s occurring in your life. And so, you realize, an excellent instance for me is… So, I like to inform folks that everyone has a circle of brilliance, I name it. What’s the circle of brilliance? Nicely, you’ve heard the expression that you simply’re the typical of the 5 folks you hang around with, proper?

So, you realize, I have a tendency to hang around with actually good folks, okay. Smarter than I’m. And I’m not speaking e book good. I’m simply speaking, you realize, those who I can study from. As a result of I’m an open e book. I’m like a sponge, man. I’m attempting to seize all of it, proper? And so, I name it your circles of brilliance, as a result of I’m a kind of sort of guys, and it will get me into bother generally, I prefer to create my very own language, okay? So, I name it a circle of brilliance. So, who’s in your circle of brilliance? Who are you able to go to? Who are you able to hang around with that empowers you to really take a look at your life from an entire totally different viewpoint? As a result of when you increase your viewpoint, then your life expands. Okay? And so, the entire concept of the seven-step tuning-in course of, so, tuning is basically easy. Have you ever ever… So, for these of you which have learn the e book “The Energy of Now,” okay, which was considered one of my favourite books, however for one cause, okay, which was the idea that Eckhart Tolle got here up with, which is named “The witness.”

Okay, so, what which means from that e book is mainly, as soon as you possibly can witness your life, so, you step out, okay, and take a look at your life. You witness what you’re doing, you witness your behaviors, you witness your ideas, you witness the way you present up, you witness who you cling round with. All that stuff offers a profound impact on the outcomes which might be gonna occur in your life. So, the seven-step tuning-in course of is about…first step is observe. Know the place you’re in your life. Second step is establish what’s holding you again. The third step is reframe these beliefs that sabotage you. Okay? Fourth step is pivot right into a extra empowering mindset. The fifth step is anchor an unstoppable perception in you. The sixth step is activate. Activate it so that you now are working from a frequency of risk. And combine, you merely begin dwelling it now. That’s it. And so, in case you’re actually caught in your life, and also you don’t know what the next step is, then, once more, ask your self the one query, what do I have to do to shift? Ask your self, as you mentioned, Katie, ask your self these questions.

Why are the identical issues exhibiting up? What’s it about me… As a result of it’s about you. What’s it about me that’s getting in the best way of letting the magic of awe and surprise that’s throughout you to develop into your regular? And the reality of the matter is it’s all about whether or not you assume you’re good sufficient, whether or not you assume you come up with the money for, whether or not you assume you realize the appropriate folks. You understand the entire what-ifs, okay? All people’s acquired what-ifs. After which there’s the what-ifs, the I can’ts, the I ought to haves, after which sometime I’ll. And you realize that sometime just isn’t a day of the week, by the best way.

Katie: I like that phrase a lot. Sure.

Paul: Proper? And I didn’t provide you with that. I believe… I imply, I learn that. Have you learnt Sam Warren?

Katie: Sure. I like her.

Paul: Yeah, I believe that was her e book title, proper? However the fact of the matter is is that, once more, every part in your life is mostly a direct results of some thought that you simply’ve had. So if you get up within the morning, after I speak about rituals, if you get up within the morning, I spend the primary hour of my day on me, okay? I don’t take a look at this till I end my ritual. So, my morning ritual is all about… I imply, I may give you an actual fast synopsis, it’s, I get up within the morning, I drink a phenomenal glass of water, as a result of I have to hydrate. As a result of, you realize, if you’re in your sleep state, you’re dehydrated, as a result of your physique’s doing its digestive stuff and all that stuff. Drink an amazing glass of water. Then, I take a look at the ceiling, earlier than I get away from bed, and I pray. And I thank God, as a result of I pray to God, okay? I’m not a non secular particular person. I’m a religious particular person, however I name it God. I pray to God, and thank God for one more day for me to indicate up in my energy, and be capable of get out of my very own manner. That’s my prayer within the morning.

After which I do a gratitude train. I’m grateful for 3 folks. And I’m a part of… You understand Jeff Hays. Who I spoke to in the present day, mentioned to say hello to you. So, Jeff created an app known as Gratitapp, G-R-A-T-I-T-A-P-P. It’s a free app. I’m his companion in it. And it’s a gratitude app. As a result of after I do my gratitude train, within the mornings, I used to only write in my gratitude journal. So, I’d write in, you realize, considered one of my journals, and I acquired tons of them. I’d write in my gratitude journal about, I’m like, you realize, who I’m grateful for. And I’d decide three folks. After which, you’d by no means see it, as a result of it’s in my journal. I’m not gonna ship this to you, proper? So, Jeff got here up with this concept of Gratitapp, which is mainly an app the place you get up within the morning, you open the app, after which three folks present up. Proper? And in case you like them, nice, if not, swipe, after which you possibly can grateful for 3 folks and then you definately ship it. In order that’s my gratitude train.

After which I learn three books, okay? Each morning. I learn one year of “Suppose and Develop Wealthy,” one year of “7 Habits of Extremely Efficient Folks,” and I learn a e book known as “The Artwork of Residing,” by a man named Epictetus, whose was round when Aristotle and people cats had been, proper? And I learn these three books day-after-day. So, clearly, in the present day I learn, you realize, October twenty fifth, in “Suppose and Develop Wealthy” and “7 Habits.” After which, with the opposite e book, I simply sort decide it up, flip by some pages, and it all the time ends on the appropriate web page. After which from there, what I do is, I hearken to my 15 minute good morning, nice day sculptation, it’s known as. That’s my mind expertise, which I’ve had a bit of greater than 3 million folks obtain. And it’s mainly me speaking to me, and speaking myself into having a profitable day, proper?

And it’s actually cool stuff. It’s utilizing binaural beat, heartbeat, and respiration patterns. I name it multivariant resonant expertise. It’s actually highly effective, and it actually works. After which, what I do after I do that’s I’ll play with my animals, okay? I’ve two stunning cats. I used to have two canines and two cats. I’ve two stunning cats. I play with my animals, as a result of they train me unconditional love, all proper? So, I wanna be in an area of affection. After which, I stroll round in my home and on my deck, and I speak to my vegetation. Now, folks assume I’m loopy. I’m. However vegetation are very, very highly effective, proper? After which, from then, the very last thing I do after I end all that, Katie, is I sit down, and I write. And I write this factor each morning. You possibly can go to my Fb web page, Paul Hoffman, fb.com Paul Hoffman profile. And I write this factor each morning known as “Good morning, Nice Day.” And it’s a really inspiring thought that I write, really, for myself, however lots of people adore it, and it’s actually about setting your day up, proper?

And I’m really placing them in a e book, lastly. I imply, it’s taken me a very long time. See, one of many issues, and I’ll get into that in a minute, one of many issues is, generally I procrastinate, women and gents, however that’s okay. That’s okay. Now I’m studying to not procrastinate. However there’s an entire factor round that. After which, so I write this… So, I’ve acquired about 1,000 of them. So now, I’ve began to edit them, and I’ve acquired now 90 of them edited. And for one more, most likely, one other month and a half, I’ll have 365 of them, and I’ve a writer that’s involved in them. And I’m gonna put a e book out known as “Good Morning, Nice Day,” you realize, “365 Days of Knowledge,” or no matter I’ll name it.

Then, from there, the subsequent factor I’ll do is I’ll follow what I name nutritionising. Okay? So, I juice day-after-day. I make my smoothies day-after-day. I make my “it’s all good” water. Did you get the “it’s all good” bites by the best way? Okay. “It’s all good” water. After which I’ll exit and… So, the juice, smoothies, the water, after which what I’ll do is I’ll do a really brief religious prayer once more, after which that’ll take me about an hour. It takes me about an hour for my day. After which I am going out and I work out for 2 hours. So, I’m up at 5:00, 5:30. So, my routine is normally over, give or take, 6:30, 7:00, my morning routine, after which I’ll do a two-hour exercise. So, by that point, it’s round 9:30, perhaps 10:00, I’m able to rock. I’m able to, like, go on the market and simply sort out the day, okay? And I believe that it’s so essential for folks to grasp, once more, going again to what we had been speaking about, Katie, that complete concept of you set your self up day-after-day for fulfillment. You identify what it’s that you simply wanna do in your life, you realize, as a result of what you do in the present day really is gonna decide what you’re gonna do tomorrow. However in case you’re not likely aware of what you’re doing, then you definately’re strolling round unconscious.

I imply, I don’t know every other technique to say it. I imply, these of us that stroll round unconscious, and I used to do this, by the best way, fairly a bit, then I’m lacking out on all of the magic that’s in search of my consideration. So, once more, the idea that we create every part that occurs in our life, such as you say, Katie, is sort of like… It’s a kind of sort of ideas, now… I don’t know, man. That’s a tough one to seize onto. However the fact of the matter, it’s. Now, hear, there’s loopy issues that occur in life, after all. You understand, however you don’t wanna put your self in conditions the place hurt comes your manner or no matter. However the fact of the matter is if you actually are aware, and know what you wanna do in your life, you realize, as a result of you realize the place you’re, then you definately’re a minimum of giving your self a chance to shapeshift your future, and create, you realize, the proper day.

Okay, now’s every part good? No, as a result of if every part was good, there’s one other caveat right here, if every part was good, you’d don’t have anything to work on. Okay? The reality of the matter is, man, it’s enjoyable to work in your life in case you make it enjoyable. However in case you’re gonna be trudging by it, man, you realize, it’s loopy. However, you realize, everyone has the present in themselves to have something that they need of their life. And once more, you realize, I perceive circumstances. I get all that stuff. Pay attention, I had a $2,500 per week cocaine behavior, for a lot of, many, a few years, people, okay? I used to be put in a straight jacket, okay? I used to be despatched to the 14th flooring psych ward of St. Vincent’s Hospital. Okay? That is after I’m making hundreds of thousands of {dollars} within the jingle enterprise, and sabotaging myself. So, I’m certified to speak about these items. Fact of the matter is, man, simply get out of your personal manner, and permit who you actually are to blossom, and to return out.

As a result of, you realize, there’s… And I all the time speak about this, and this has to do with procrastination, too. It’s really easy to procrastinate, as a result of there’s all the time two types to an excuse, all proper? There’s the excuse you make, okay, which supplies you permission to not do one thing, no matter. However then… So, the excuse you make that offers you that permission, after which there’s the excuse you make for the excuse, which then turns into your actuality. So, I’m all the time about attempting to find, uncover, and discard all of the stuff that’s sort of like in my very own manner. And I’ve been round this planet a very long time, and I’m gonna maintain being round it for lots longer, as a result of as I instructed you, my mother died at 104, my grandmother died at 109. I’m gonna be round a very long time. However I maintain myself as a result of I’ve a zest to stay life. I’ve a zest to essentially exit and actually empower folks to actually, you realize, unleash their present, unleash the treasure of who they’re. As a result of we’re all a treasure, man. We’re all a masterpiece. We’re all a chunk of, a murals, which is why I all the time say, you realize, in case you discover ways to create the correct rituals, and the habits, and the mindsets, then you definately get to sculpt the masterpiece often known as you. And there’s no person such as you. I don’t know if that answered it, however that’s my story. I’m sticking with it.

Katie: It completely did. And I’m glad you introduced up a bit of little bit of different components of your story as properly, as a result of I believe perhaps folks listening may simply assume, properly, after all, this man can do all this as a result of he has had all these cool careers and companies, and doubtless life has been most likely straightforward for him all through all of this. So I’m glad you shared a few of your personal ups and downs that you simply’ve had, and now the attitude on being on the opposite facet of that. Did these shift your mindset in sure methods all through these totally different challenges and experiences? Like, I do know, for me, wanting again, the more durable occasions in my life really grew to become a number of the most impactful occasions in my life, in a really optimistic manner, now. However within the second, after all, it didn’t fairly appear to be that. How did these actually profoundly affect your life if you got here out the opposite facet of them?

Paul: Nicely, that’s an amazing query, and thanks for that. So, anyone ever hear about what’s known as the imposter syndrome? You heard about that, proper? So, I had the imposter syndrome, and I nonetheless have bits and items of it, people. So, you realize, I’m a self-taught musician and composer. Okay? So, I can play sufficient to be harmful, okay? I’m not an amazing singer, however I put myself on the market. However, you realize, I’ve mastered my craft, let me put it to you that manner. And so, after I say I’ve an imposter syndrome, so, I’ve been round very, very well-known folks in my life. Okay? And I’m not a stargazer. However the level I’m attempting to make right here is that after I was within the jingle enterprise, and I used to be making hundreds of thousands of {dollars}, and I used to be snorting $2,500 per week of cocaine, and I used to be on high of the world, and I used to be being interviewed by CBS, and NBC, and CNN, all this type of stuff, if you’ll, it’s solely simply stuff, I’d be doing jingles that, you realize, I’d be within the studio. I’d write this factor. After which I am going in and I’d have an arranger take my composition and prepare it, whether or not it’s for strings and horns, or rhythm part, no matter it may be. And the folks that may play on my jingles had been folks that you simply most likely know who they’re.

So, if anyone ever watched the “David Letterman Present” when it was on, his band, the Letterman band, was guys that performed on my jingles, okay? Michael Bolton used to sing my jingles, okay? Luther Vandross used to sing my… I imply, so all these folks would sing my jingles. And each time they’d come into the studio, I’d assume they’d take a look at me like I used to be a phony, as a result of I by no means studied music, you realize. And these guys who’d like, you realize, consummate musicians. Like, the string gamers I used to rent was, you realize, had been Juilliard graduates, and so they had been enjoying within the New York Philharmonic, okay? So, I’d all the time assume that they might assume I used to be, like, a fraud. And that went on for years and years and years.

After which after I acquired into, what I do now, the entire instructing space of what I do, I imply, I acquired into it very just by, there was a man named T. Harv Eker. I don’t know in case you knew who he was, okay, Peak Potentials. So, I went to his occasion. And he invited me, it was known as The Millionaire Thoughts Intensive. Three-day occasion. Nice Trainer. Mainly, he taught you about, you realize, find out how to change your cash blueprint. So, in case you assume poor, then you definately’re poor. In the event you assume considerable, you’re considerable. However anyway, once more, it’s all consciousness. So, I sat there for 3 days. It was my first expertise within the private improvement world. He comes as much as me after the occasion, and he says, “Hey, so, what do you assume, bro? What do you assume?” I mentioned, “Harv, you’re a extremely good trainer, man. Your music sucks.” He’s mentioned, “What do you imply my music sucks?

So, I say, “Nicely, Harvey, you realize, I’m sitting right here for 3 days, and all you play is common songs about cash that you simply assume match into your rules, however they don’t. And so, what in case you had your personal tune?” He mentioned, “Nicely, how would I try this?” I mentioned, “I’ll write it for you.” So I wrote him a tune known as, “I’ve acquired a Millionaire Thoughts.” Okay? After which he mentioned, “Okay, man, that is nice. Are you able to write songs for all my programs?” after which Jack Canfield known as me, and Mark Victor Hansen, and Brendon Burchard, and Alex Mandossian, and the record goes on. And I created this firm known as Success Songs, the place you possibly can go to it now and you will get a tune without cost. However anyway, the purpose is, is that then I mentioned to Harv in the future, I mentioned, “Harv, you realize what, man? I wanna begin talking on the phases,” as a result of I had this deep, deep want to essentially change folks’s lives. As a result of as I train, Katie, I’m studying. As a result of I train what I have to study. You understand, we’ve all heard that expression, proper? And so, I mentioned to Harv, “Man, I’d love to have the ability to converse in your phases.” He mentioned, “Nicely, what would you talk about?” I mentioned, Nicely, I’d talk about rituals, habits, and mindset.” And I, you realize, went over the entire story about, like, I’m telling you, and he mentioned, “Nice, let’s do it.” So he booked me on the phases, then swiftly, all these different folks began to name me, and but I nonetheless thought that I used to be a fraud.

As a result of I don’t… You understand, I’ve learn all of the stuff, however, you realize, I all the time inform folks there’s no authentic concepts. There’s no authentic concepts. There’s simply your interpretation, which is authentic, by the best way, nevertheless it’s your interpretation of an concept. Proper? So, after I say, you realize, you’re internal actuality creates your outer circumstance, I imply, Jim Rohn, I believe mentioned that, you realize, John Maxwell mentioned that. All these folks have mentioned that, proper? And I simply, I speak about it in another way. I mentioned, “Nicely, your invironment creates your surroundings.” Proper? After which lastly, at one level, I simply wakened in the future and I mentioned, “You understand, Paul, why don’t you cease getting in your personal manner? Why don’t you get out of your personal rattling manner, and simply exit and put it on the market, man? Simply be genuine. Simply be genuine. Folks will reply.” Okay? And that’s sort of what occurred.

However I’ll let you know what, I can nonetheless go in my recording studio, and I’ll write a tune. I’m really gonna… I’m engaged on an concept now for one thing. However I’ll let you know, the primary thought I’ve in my head after I sit down at my keyboard, proper, and bear in mind, I’m not an amazing participant, however I sit down on my keyboard, proper, the primary thought I’ve my head is like, “no person’s gonna like this.” That’s the very first thing I… I’m telling you the reality. After which lastly, it’s like, wait a minute, bro. I catch myself. Wait a minute. Okay. Pay attention, man, 3 million folks have listened to my stuff. I’ve made hundreds of thousands of {dollars} with my music. I believe I’ve been profitable in my music enterprise. So get out of your personal manner and simply go for it. And that’s sort of how it’s. And everyone on this name, and everyone that’s in your tribe, Katie, which is a strong, highly effective group of individuals, man, since you present up. I imply, you’re gentle. You actually are. And that’s why I wished to be on this course, as a result of I wanna get a few of your gentle, my pricey. I wanna get a few of your gentle. However the fact of the matter is, man, it’s like, you realize, in case you simply take a deep breath, decelerate, and simply breathe within the fact of who you’re, you possibly can let go of all that detrimental stuff. You possibly can let go of all these thoughts traps that you simply assume are your fact.

The one fact that you’ve is the reality that you simply consider, about you. And in case you don’t assume you are able to do it, then determine a technique to do it. Okay? However don’t surrender on your self, as a result of giving up just isn’t an possibility. It’s simply not an possibility. As a result of in case you surrender, you keep in the identical place that you simply’ve been, in the identical place, in the identical place. After which, simply, it’s like a hamster wheel. You’re going round and round and spherical. So, I’ve discovered that, okay, I may not be the neatest man in sure issues. I do know numerous stuff, I do know lots of people, I’ve had nice success, in spurts, not spurts. I’ve made hundreds of thousands and misplaced hundreds of thousands, by the best way. Okay? And made it once more. However this isn’t in regards to the cash. The cash is simply power. Cash is simply power. It’s what you do with the cash that’s essential. Okay? And so, on the finish of the day, I lastly simply mentioned to myself, “You understand what, man? Why don’t you simply put it on the market? Put your self on the market and let the universe information you.”

As a result of in case your universe is aware of that is essential, guys, if the universe is aware of that you simply’re prepared, it provides you with no matter is critical so that you can have no matter you need in your life. But when the universe feels you’re not prepared, it gained’t give it to you. As a result of the universe isn’t screwing round right here. And the universe desires highly effective folks on this planet, inspiring folks in order that the world works for everyone, in order that…this can be a… We stay in a world… And the world’s loopy proper now, as everyone knows. There’s loopy stuff. And, you realize, politics, I’m, simply not my factor. However there’s simply loopy concepts occurring world wide. However the fact of the matter is, you don’t have to purchase into any of that stuff. All it’s essential to do is present up. That’s all. Simply present up.

Katie: And I really feel like perhaps an essential piece I’d love to the touch on, you’ve touched on this a bit of bit, nevertheless it’s the thought of find out how to direct the lively thoughts. As a result of I believe lots of people perhaps really feel like ideas and feelings are simply issues that occur to us. And making the shift, and studying find out how to direct that, I really feel prefer it’s very pivotal for all this stuff we’re speaking about. So, if somebody perhaps looks like they’re in a spot of, “properly, I simply have these feelings, I’ve these ideas, they occur to me,” how can they begin to study to direct the lively thoughts?

Paul: Good query. The reality of the matter is that nothing occurs to you. Let me simply begin there. Nothing occurs to you. You create what occurs. So, it doesn’t occur to you. You create what occurs. And so, your thoughts is lively. And so, I train… You understand, considered one of my manufacturers is named “Sculptations,” and it’s a mind expertise. Okay? And so, I take binaural beats, heartbeats, and respiration patterns. I put it collectively. I name it multivariant resonant expertise, okay? I’ve had a bit of greater than 3 million folks obtain it, and I write all of the music. It’s all actually cool. I do the visualization over it, which I name thoughts sculpting. And I take you on a journey. Okay? However the fact of the matter is, is that your thoughts is all the time going to be lively, as a result of your thoughts is all the time on the lookout for what you’re putting into it.

So how do you direct your thoughts? Simply be aware about what you’re placing in it. Okay? And so, when most individuals say, you realize, man, you realize, I’m gonna simply sit down and meditate and quiet my thoughts, my very first thing, right here’s my first response to that, Katie, is sweet luck. Good luck, you realize. And in case you discover ways to try this, please let me know. As a result of your thoughts just isn’t designed to be quiet. Your thoughts’s designed to be lively. However your thoughts, if you know the way to discover ways to direct it, and management it, by what you place into it, I imply, that’s so simple as it will get, consider me, then what occurs is you possibly can direct that lively thoughts to be lively within the path that you really want it to go. However in case you don’t know what you need, and in case you’re floundering since you’re not sure…and by the best way, that’s okay. As a result of, you realize, it takes self-discipline, willpower, and dedication to essentially determine what it’s that you really want in your life, as a result of the very first thing it’s essential to know in life is what would you like? You then want, gotta know, why do I would like it? Okay. After which the third factor is, what do I would like? Why do I would like it? And the third factor is that query I mentioned, what do I have to do to make it occur? However your lively thoughts is all the time gonna be lively. You understand, it’s the entire combat or flight. Everyone knows about these items, okay?

However in case you’re not in a position to perceive the place you’re in your life proper now, the place’s your candy spot, then what occurs is, is that you simply’re gonna be…you’re bombarded with all these items. That’s why after I begin my day, Katie, and I don’t take a look at this rattling factor… As a result of see this proper right here? This can be a freaking dependancy. Okay? As a result of life is an dependancy. You name it no matter you need. It’s not simply medicine and alcohol, consider me, okay? However in case you’re going to offer your energy over to one thing outdoors of you, sport over. You’ve misplaced the day. Okay? And so, to essentially uncover what it’s that you really want, it takes a robust mindset, and a perception in your potential to have what you need. After which if you tune into your lively thoughts, in case you tune in with the appropriate questions, as you introduced up, which is a good, nice, nice idea, which everyone ought to follow, by the best way, and I’m not that nice at it, generally I’m, however then what occurs is you’re giving your lively thoughts, as a result of your lively thoughts’s all the time in search of exercise. It desires to know the place you need it to go. That’s how your thoughts works.

So, in case you can direct your thoughts, then you possibly can take it anyplace you wanna take it. In the event you can’t direct your thoughts, guess what? Your thoughts is gonna take you the place it desires to take you, by the feelings. You understand, to start with, it’s crucial to verify in together with your emotion, and verify in together with your emotions. Now, after I was snorting $2500 value of cocaine, you realize, per week, it was like, you realize, my feelings and emotions had been all around the freaking place. And that was my consolation. So I am going, you realize, simply, no matter. It was my consolation to do this sort of stuff. Clearly, it wasn’t good for me, and I knew it wasn’t good for me, however you realize what? I used to be nonetheless… I had all these different issues occurring, the imposter syndrome, you realize, relations.

I bear in mind, you realize, one time, Katie, after I stopped doing cocaine for a minute, okay? I haven’t performed cocaine in over 30 years, and I by no means will once more, thank God. However bear in mind, I went to a rehab, proper? I went to 4 rehabs, by the best way, people. And every considered one of them had a profound impact on me. And at last, the final one acquired me to cease doing what I used to be doing, which was a harmful conduct. However I bear in mind, you realize, the second rehab I went to, it was an outpatient program. I went to see the physician, and we needed to take a urine take a look at. I walked in, and he mentioned, “You understand, by the best way, your urine’s soiled, man.” I mentioned, “Yeah, I do know.” He mentioned, “Why did you slip?” They known as it a slip. I mentioned, “Nicely…” I blamed it on my girlfriend. It was her fault. She didn’t put the spoon in entrance of my nostril. She didn’t go purchase the cocaine. She didn’t do any of that stuff. Nevertheless it was her fault that I snorted.

You see, so, if you begin to deflect and try this sort of stuff, then you definately’re definitely not directing your thoughts the best way you need it to go, however you’re really letting your thoughts play video games on you. And so, you’ve gotta be actually, actually, actually targeted and attentive to what’s occurring. However in case you assume you’re gonna cease and quiet your thoughts, then I’d counsel go stay within the Himalayas, take a look at a tree for 40 years, and also you may be capable of quiet your thoughts. However in case you wanna stay a life that’s filled with risk, filled with alternative, filled with exhibiting up within the energy of who you’re, then you definately’re gonna be lively, and transfer within the path that you simply wanna go. And when one door closes, one other one’s on the brink of open. Whenever you say no to one thing, you’re saying sure to one thing else. And on the finish of the day, if it’s actually not going the best way you wanna go, follow my favourite phrase, which is “subsequent.”

“What’s occurring? This isn’t occur… Subsequent.” As a result of I’m telling you, the universe is there for you. The universe is there for you. It’s a really religious idea. I perceive that, and I do know everyone right here believes it. Okay? However the universe is there for you, supplied you give the universe the explanation for it to be there for you. That’s sort of my… That’s my story. I’m sticking with it. You understand, and I don’t put myself in conditions anymore the place I’m challenged in methods by poisonous power. And you realize what that appears like, Katie, and I’m certain numerous your listeners do, too. You understand, so, I bear in mind, I had a buddy of mine, years and years in the past, and he’s since handed away, however this man would give me the shirt off his again. I imply, this man, his identify is Marty. God bless you, Marty. Could you relaxation in peace, bro. He was a tremendous human being. However Marty was some of the detrimental folks I ever met in my life.

And so, each time I’d say to Marty, say, “Marty, the way you doing, man?” He’d undergo this tirade, 5 minute tirade, about how his life sucked, proper? And but, man’s driving a pleasant automobile. He’s acquired all the trimmings, if you’ll. He simply didn’t have this. He simply didn’t have the appropriate mindset. And so, lastly, in the future, Katie, I mentioned to Marty, “Marty, I like you, bro. I can’t hang around with you anymore.” As a result of I don’t need that power. I don’t need that stuff round me, as a result of that impacts who I’m, that impacts how I believe, that impacts the beliefs that I’ve, and that chips away on the perception and the arrogance that I’ve created in my life, which has taken me years to do. And that’s okay it’s taken me years to do, as a result of it’s my journey, all proper, and I personal it. However everyone’s acquired a special journey. And so, you realize, I have a tendency to only… I don’t cling round with detrimental folks, I don’t put myself in poisonous conditions, and I management my future. And a few days, I don’t like the best way it appears, Katie. I’ll let you know that. However you realize what? This too shall go.

Katie: Sure, each storm runs out of rain. I remind myself that. When issues appear powerful.

Paul: There you go. The solar’s all the time shining people, even when it’s cloudy.

Katie: Precisely.

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And I knew our time would fly by, as I knew it could, and a pair… I wanna make sure that we have now time for my previous couple of questions that I like to ask. And the primary being, three issues that individuals both don’t know or misunderstand about your space of experience.

Paul: Okay, so I’m gonna return to… And I gave this some actually nice thought, as a result of they’re actually nice questions, Katie. You’re a rock star, younger girl. Okay. So, the primary one is about, you realize, meditating, okay. So, most individuals assume there’s a proper or a mistaken technique to meditate. There is no such thing as a proper or mistaken technique to meditate. That’s not what it’s about. And meditation is simply tuning in. You’re tuning in to your lively thoughts, so that you go on an intentional seek for what you search in your life. So, it’s not about sitting… Okay, you possibly can sit there, you possibly can stroll round and meditate, you are able to do no matter, however in case you’re on the lookout for a particular consequence, then make sure that the intention that you simply set for the tuning in has an intentional consequence. As a result of intention is an important a part of it.

So, it’s nothing about, you realize, am I doing it proper? Am I doing it mistaken? So, I believe that’s an enormous false impression. So, I believe most individuals generally will sit down and attempt to meditate, and after 2 minutes, or after 5 minutes, or after 10 minutes, or after no matter, they’ll say, “Nicely, geez, I didn’t get something.” Nicely, perhaps that’s what was speculated to occur. You weren’t speculated to get something. How about that? No matter. It’s a follow. It’s a follow. It takes a follow to have the ability to tune in to your lively thoughts. Okay, how lengthy did it take you to discover ways to trip a motorcycle? It was a follow. Okay, so that you gotta follow it day-after-day. Put it in your success toolkit, and do it the best way you wanna do it. There’s a lot of alternative ways to meditate. I name it tuning in. There’s the seven-step tuning in course of. I take you thru a journey, observe, establish, reframe, pivot, anchor, activate, and combine. Okay, that’s one factor.

The second factor is, you realize, most individuals don’t perceive, they play the sufferer and so they play the blame sport. And such as you mentioned, you realize, why is that this occurring to me? Why it’s occurring to you is since you’re attracting it. Due to the place your consciousness is. That’s why it’s freakin’ occurring to you. Okay? So, most individuals don’t perceive, the largest impediment to success, no matter it appears prefer to you in life. I’m not speaking about financial success, or if that’s what it’s that you really want, is you. So get out of your personal freakin’ manner. In order that your invironment is a vibrational match together with your surroundings, and then you definately’ll be capable of appeal to and manifest the best life you want. As a result of solely you maintain the important thing that unlocks your present. That’s the second factor.

The third factor is there’s all the time two types to an excuse. It’s considered one of my favourite… I like speaking about excuses. Proper? There’s the excuse you make that offers you the permission to place off one thing and make the excuse. And, you realize, I imply, I don’t know what number of occasions, Katie, in my life, I went into… You understand, I want to scrub the storage, no matter it may be, okay? Okay, I’m sorry, I have to work on this program I’m doing, however I’ll all the time discover one thing else to do as an alternative. Now, why do I try this? As a result of I’ve some worry of eager to do what I’m speculated to do. So I’m very aware of what my thoughts traps are. Okay? And it takes follow. However there’s all the time two types to an excuse. The excuse you make, after which there’s the excuse you make for the excuse. Okay? After which that turns into your actuality.

So, in case you wanna proceed to make excuses for who you’re, go proper forward. Okay? The universe won’t hearken to you. It is going to begin placing stuff in your manner that may make you journey up, and ultimately get into understanding that you simply create your life. You create your life. I’ve this expression I all the time say, which is, “life is what you make it.” So take note of the way you present up for you, as a result of the largest factor about… In the event you don’t present up for you in life, you possibly can’t present up for anyone. As a result of it’s you that draws who you wanna appeal to in your life. It’s you that draws the circumstances that you simply put your self into. It’s you that may appeal to the success you need. It’s you that’s sending out this waveform of power and frequency that comes again to you within the kind that you simply ship it out.

So, in case you wanna ship out that your life sucks, you realize what’s gonna come again? Your life sucks. Excuse my language. So, once more, these are the three issues that I follow day-after-day. I imply, I’ve them throughout my home. You understand, I’ve one other nice quote in my home, which was by Edison. He mentioned, “I didn’t fail…” You understand, he tried to invent the sunshine bulb. However I believe Tesla invented the sunshine bulb anyway. However anyway, it doesn’t actually matter. However Edison mentioned, “I didn’t fail 10,000 occasions.” when he tried 10,000 methods to do that, he mentioned, “I simply discovered 10,000 methods to not do it.” Now, take into consideration that, people. It’s a follow. The primary outing of the gate, you may hit a house run, however perhaps not. So that you gotta discover ways to hit curveballs. You gotta discover ways to hit softballs. You gotta discover ways to hit fastballs. You gotta discover ways to get out of your personal manner. And that’s the essential half.

Katie: I adore it. And lastly, I believe you’re gonna have an amazing reply to this one, but when there’s a e book or plenty of books which have had a profound affect in your life, and in that case, what they’re and why.

Paul: Okay, so I’ve acquired seven books. I considered this, Katie. As a result of I acquired a whole lot of books throughout me, and I like all of them, proper? And I’ve really not learn all of them cowl the duvet, however I’ve learn a minimum of one web page in all of them. Proper? So, there’s a e book known as “The Kybalion,” Ok-Y-B-A-L-I-O-N. It’s about airtight philosophies, okay? It’s outdated Egyptian stuff, proper? Nevertheless it’s about common rules and common legal guidelines. It’s an amazing e book. Then there’s a e book known as “The Untethered Soul,” by Michael Singer. Okay? There’s a e book known as “Habits” by Charles Duhigg. I’ve most likely learn each e book on the market on habits, okay, as a result of I train habits. Then there’s a e book on Mindset by Carol Dweck. Okay. Then there’s an amazing e book by this man named Ray Dalio, who’s a… He’s within the monetary world. He has a e book known as “Rules,” which is a extremely, actually good e book. And it’s about life rules and the way he interprets his rules to his work, proper? After which, after all, “7 Habits of Extremely Efficient Folks,” by Stephen Covey, and “Suppose and Develop Wealthy” by Napoleon Hill. You possibly can’t go mistaken studying that e book. And people are the books that I…they’re throughout me. I imply, I’ve acquired them proper right here. All I gotta do is go like this. They’re on my fingertips, on a regular basis, as a result of I get one thing out of them on a regular basis.

Katie: And lastly, any parting recommendation, or the place folks can discover you to continue learning from you?

Paul: You will discover me, in case you go to the submit workplace, you possibly can see my image… No, I’m solely kidding. I’m solely kidding. I’m on essentially the most wished record. Folks say that to me, “The place did I meet you, Paul?” I say, “It may have been on the submit workplace. You may need seen my image in there. You understand, it’s on the FBI’s most wished record, however perhaps not.” You possibly can attain me at sculptingyourlife.com, sculptingyourlife.com, which is able to then take you to my different merchandise and types. I’m not attempting to promote something, however you possibly can all the time obtain some stuff without cost. My e-mail, my private e-mail, everyone, is [email protected] Now, in case you’re afraid to ship me an e-mail as a result of you have got a query, that’s on you. However in case you have a query, you possibly can e-mail me, and guess what? I’ll get again to you. Okay? You possibly can say within the topic line, “Heard you on Katie’s podcast.” Okay?

And the third factor, how one can get in contact with me, guess what? Prepared? My cellphone. It’s 323-810-5588. Now, you possibly can name me or textual content me anytime you need. And guess what? If I don’t reply the cellphone, I’ll name you again. As a result of I’m right here to serve. Okay, Katie’s viewers, I wished to be on this podcast… I like what she does. I like her power. I like her frequency. I like how she’s out on the planet up-leveling and uplifting folks. And I wanna be uplifted too by her. And you realize what? I’m simply grateful and grateful that she mentioned sure to me being on right here and me spewing my no matter. However yeah, in case you’ve acquired a query for me, let me know what’s occurring, as a result of as Katie mentioned initially of this factor is like, “Whenever you ask good questions, you get nice solutions.” And so, in case you’ve acquired a query that perhaps I might help you with, I’m right here to assist you. Don’t fear. I’m not gonna ask on your bank card. I don’t care about your bank card. I’m right here to assist and serve you, as a result of each considered one of you is a masterpiece. And it’s time that you simply sculpt it the best way that you simply wish to, as a result of life is what you make it. So don’t let anyone ever let you know in another way, and particularly don’t let this up right here let you know in another way.

Katie: Wow. I believe you may be the primary visitor to offer out a private cellphone quantity, and I’m certain folks will take you up on that, so that you’ll most likely hear from a number of the folks listening in the present day. That may be a very beneficiant provide, Paul.

Paul: Completely.

Katie: And I’ll make sure that to incorporate hyperlinks to all of the sources you talked about, and to a few of my favourite jumping-in factors, so folks can continue learning extra from you on-line as properly, since you’ve revealed a lot and have so many sources there. However as all the time, it was a pleasure to talk with you. I do know that you simply steadiness many issues in your life, and I respect you taking the time to be right here in the present day, and share a lot of your story. So simply thanks.

Paul: Thanks. And thanks for having me, Katie. That is very thrilling for me. I used to be wanting ahead to this, man. It’s simply… For this reason I do what I do. And that is why I cling round folks such as you. And so, if that is any indication for all of the listeners out right here of find out how to do it, that is find out how to do it.

Katie: Oh, thanks for being right here a lot. And because of all of you guys as all the time, for listening, for sharing your most precious sources, your time, your power, and your consideration with us in the present day. We’re each so grateful that you simply did, and I hope that you’ll be a part of me once more on the subsequent episode of the “Wellness Mama Podcast.”

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